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Mastering Public Speaking: Three Steps to build Unshakable Confidence
- December 16, 2024
- Posted by: Chirag Goswami

Mastering Public Speaking: Three Steps to build Unshakable Confidence

Imagine this: A person walks onto a stage and instantly holds the audience’s attention. Their voice commands attention, their movements exude poise, and they seem completely at ease. What’s their secret? Confidence.
But here’s the thing: Confidence in Public Speaking is a skill that anybody can learn. With the proper techniques, you will stand out and turn your fear into power. Let’s break it down to three steps to help you be dynamic and confident.
Step 1: Project Assurance, Even When Nervous
Confidence starts with the way you carry yourself. You can be shaking inside but still appear composed and here is how to do it:
Act the Part Until You Own It: Confidence can be learned through intentional behavior. You will eventually start feeling on the inside as you begin acting out on the outside. Stand Upright, with open shoulders, and relax but seem purposeful in standing; do not fidget as it reflects unease. This attitude gives confidence. Smile Genuinely; The smile calms you but also makes the audience connect with you and keep their focus on you.
Stay and Say with Purpose: Controlled gestures should be used for highlighting important points, without the distractions of fidgeting or pacing.
Communicate Through Eye Contact: Establishing a connection through your gaze builds trust and rapport. Aim to balance your focus across the room to keep everyone engaged. Look Around; Try to distribute your gaze evenly across sections of the audience. Pause Strategically; Use brief breaks in eye contact to punctuate your points or transition smoothly between ideas.
Adapt to the Setting: Adjust the duration and frequency of your eye contact based on audience size and cultural norms.

Step 2: Harness the Power of Your Voice
Your voice is your most versatile tool for holding attention and delivering impact. Learn to vary your tone, tempo, and emphasis to captivate your audience.
Elevate Your Vocal Presence
- Pitch: Use a higher pitch to convey enthusiasm or a lower pitch for authority and gravitas.
- Pace: Speak slowly when emphasizing critical points and speed up to convey energy and urgency.
- Pause: Make a silent interval at times, leaving the listener time to internalize key statements.
- Volume: Change your volume at some points while making the important statements; keep the listeners interested as well.
Using Words With Emotion: Powerful phrasing: Use words which carry emotion. For example, “transformational” or “breakthrough” makes any idea attractive. Shake-Off Verbal Crutches replace filler words “um” and “like” with calculated pauses. The little act would significantly help build authority as well as clear communication.
Step 3: Achieving Internal Confidence
As important as looking and sounding confident, confidence is feeling confident. Control shakiness through the kind of techniques that calm the inner turmoil. Here’s how you can do it:
- Focus on Anchor Point: When nervousness creeps in, identify an anchor point to soothe those nerves.
- Identify Your Anchor: This anchor may be a friendly face in the crowd or even a fixed object in the room.
- Recenter Yourself: If you feel overwhelmed, use this anchor to regain your composure by redirecting attention.
- Practice Routinely: Through time, this procedure allows you to build some form of calm, with reliance on external aids coming to an end.
Strike a Power Pose: Body language can also determine your state of mind. The best time to gain confidence to speak out on stage is in a power pose. Feet rooted and hands on the hips, or arms held up for victory.
Stand that way for two minutes breathing heavily and envisioning victory. This can be done before great presentations as a ritual.

More Resources for would be Speakers
Inspirational Reads: Books like “Talk Like TED” by Carmine Gallo and “The Confidence Code” by Katty Kay have deep insights into public speaking.
Online Tutorials: YouTube and Coursera provide short, practical lessons from experienced speakers. To become more confident in Public Speaking enroll now on SpeakitUp with Jigyasa.
Watch and Learn: Observe the TED Talks to understand how skilled speakers use storytelling, voice, and presence.
How I Overcame My Fear of Public Speaking by Dr. Justin Moseley
Becoming a confident public speaker is a process that unfolds gradually. Every great orator once felt self-doubt. The key lies in persistence, preparation, and practice. Embrace these steps, experiment with what works for you, and remember: Confidence isn’t about being flawless; it’s about delivering your message with authenticity and conviction.
Start small, stay consistent, and watch yourself evolve into a speaker who inspires and leads with confidence.